40th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: Traditional & Modern Ideas
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The 40th wedding anniversary is traditionally the Ruby anniversary, and the modern gift is Ruby. The gemstone for this year is Ruby. Here’s what it means and the best 40th anniversary gift ideas for him, her, or the two of you.
What is the 40th anniversary?
Traditional gift: Ruby. Modern gift: Ruby. The gemstone for this year is Ruby. Leaning into the theme makes a gift feel intentional — but a thoughtful pick always beats a literal one.
40th anniversary gift ideas
- Ruby Ring — a nod to the traditional ruby theme.
- Ruby Necklace — modern and always welcome.
- 40Th Anniversary Gift — a safe, well-loved pick.
Make it personal
Whatever you pick, add a handwritten note or a memory. If you want more inspiration, see our full anniversary gifts for him guide, or browse all gift guides.
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Don’t let the date sneak up — count down to your anniversary or see how long you’ve been together.
⏳ Free tool: count down to your next anniversary — or make a free keepsake with the Love Story poster maker.